Being adopted from China I can identify with some of the things Bich went through. She went to a school she described as "a sea of blonde". At Christian High most people are Dutch, or at least someone in their family is. A lot of the kids have very Dutch last names beginning with Van or Vander. She talked about sticking out, all of my friends are Dutch and when standing next to them my black hair and darker skin is accentuated by their pale complexions and light hair. It doesn't really bother me that much because I'm used to it, and we don't really talk about it. She also talks about how when she was out with her family people would stare at them and say things like: Don't you know how to speak English. When I'm out with my family people sometimes stare at us too but for different reasons. We get stared at because my parents and little brother are Caucasian and my little sister and I are Asian. Bich's family got stared at because they were Asian in a Caucasian world. When I was first adopted someone actually asked my mom if I could ever learn to speak English. I can understand how she felt when people would say stuff like that and stare. Bich went back to Vietnam years later with one of her uncles and her Grandma. They were all spoke Vietnamese very fast and she wasn't able to keep up. All her relatives thought of her as American though she looked Vietnamese, Americans thought of her as Vietnamese because that's what she looked like. When my family and I went to China it was like that for me too. People would speak to me in Chinese and I couldn't understand a word of what they were saying. During that trip I realized how American I really am. When she went to Vietnam she realized how American she was. That's also why I found this book so interesting, I can identify with Bich in a lot of ways.
Responses to Stealing Buddha's Dinner
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Vietnamese Food
Phở |
To learn more about Vietnamese food visit:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vietnamese_cuisine
http://www.vietnamese-recipes.com/
Chả giò |
Bánh bao |
Bánh xèo |
Developing Tastes
Reading an interview on Bich's website I realized that my observation was correct. She did think that eating the food everyone else had would make her a middle class Dutch. As an adult Bich acknowledged that, and doesn't find some of the foods as appealing anymore. She has developed a taste for the finer chocolates and handmade sweets.
To read the rest of the interview with Bich visit:
http://www.bichminhnguyen.com/q-a/
80's Culture
Bich grew up in the 80's. The 80's are described as the "spendthrift" 80's. During this time there were lots of weird fads.
Toys: Smurfs, Nintendo, PAC Man, Gameboy, Atari, Rubik's Cubes, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Barbie, Cabbage Patch Dolls, Hacky-sacks, My Little Pony, Slip-n-Slide, Hungry Hungry Hippos, and many more.
Fashion: Legwarmers over jeans, neon, jelly shoes, Scrunch Socks, Spandex, friendship bracelets, slap bracelets, big hair bows, Nike, jean jackets, parachute pants, and weirder stuff.
Music and Movies: ET, Michael Jackson, Schoolhouse Rock, Raging Bull, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Amadeus, The Empire Strikes Back, Airplane, The Princess Bride, Madonna, Billy Joel, Whitney Houston, Cher, Chicago, Purple Rain, and LOTS more.
It's interesting looking at just some of the things that were popular back then. Some of the fashions seem horrible in my opinion, but then again some are also coming back. Also some of the movies and TV shows that were popular, still are like Scooby Doo and The Princess Bride. Things that were popular and new in the 80's now are categorized as some classics. This is just a look at some of the American culture during Bich's time.
Comparing Grand Rapids
A sea of blond Dutch kids |

Immigrating Into the United States
Camp Chaffee, one of the refugee camps |
Children playing at a refugee camp |
For more info on life in refugee camps or more about the CRC willingness to help those in need visit: http://www.encyclopediaofarkansas.net/encyclopedia/entry-detail.aspx?entryID=5562
http://www.crcna.org/pages/foundation_projects.cfm
Vietnam War
To find out more information about the Vietnam War visit: http://www.historyplace.com/unitedstates/vietnam/
Many Americans protested the Vietnam War |
U.S. soldiers |
Some of many civilian casualties |
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