Being adopted from China I can identify with some of the things Bich went through. She went to a school she described as "a sea of blonde". At Christian High most people are Dutch, or at least someone in their family is. A lot of the kids have very Dutch last names beginning with Van or Vander. She talked about sticking out, all of my friends are Dutch and when standing next to them my black hair and darker skin is accentuated by their pale complexions and light hair. It doesn't really bother me that much because I'm used to it, and we don't really talk about it. She also talks about how when she was out with her family people would stare at them and say things like: Don't you know how to speak English. When I'm out with my family people sometimes stare at us too but for different reasons. We get stared at because my parents and little brother are Caucasian and my little sister and I are Asian. Bich's family got stared at because they were Asian in a Caucasian world. When I was first adopted someone actually asked my mom if I could ever learn to speak English. I can understand how she felt when people would say stuff like that and stare. Bich went back to Vietnam years later with one of her uncles and her Grandma. They were all spoke Vietnamese very fast and she wasn't able to keep up. All her relatives thought of her as American though she looked Vietnamese, Americans thought of her as Vietnamese because that's what she looked like. When my family and I went to China it was like that for me too. People would speak to me in Chinese and I couldn't understand a word of what they were saying. During that trip I realized how American I really am. When she went to Vietnam she realized how American she was. That's also why I found this book so interesting, I can identify with Bich in a lot of ways.
Responses to Stealing Buddha's Dinner
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Vietnamese Food
Phở |
To learn more about Vietnamese food visit:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vietnamese_cuisine
http://www.vietnamese-recipes.com/
Chả giò |
Bánh bao |
Bánh xèo |
Developing Tastes
Bich eats a lot of Vietnamese and Mexican food, obviously because she and most of her family are Vietnamese and she eats Mexican because her step mom and sister are Mexican. She likes it but what she really wants to eat is what everyone else eats. While reading this I figured out that as a kid she struggles with not fitting in. She doesn't look like everyone else, have a name like everyone else, basically she wasn't a middle class Dutch person. She thinks that if she eats what everyone else eats she will fit in. Anyways, because of this she ends up spending most of her time daydreaming about American food, mainly of the preprocessed persuasion. She wanted the food that the other kids had: Bundt cakes and casseroles, Cheetos and Doritos. "My secret dream was to bite off just the tip of every slice of pizza in the two-for-one deal we got at Little Ceasar's." She also memorized the menu at Dairy Cone, the sugary options in the cereal aisle at Meijer's, and every inch of the candy display at Gas City. In short she was obsessed with unhealthy American food. She knew almost every kind of candy, including: Bubble Yum, Bubbbalicous, Hubba Bubba, Chewels, Tidal Wave, Big League Chew and gum shaped like hot dogs and hamburgers. She knew more than gum though, there was Reese's peanut butter cups, Twix, Heath Crunch, Baby Ruth, Bar Non, Oh Henry!, Mounda and Almond Joy, Watchamacallit, Chunky, Charleston Chew, and Dolly Madison. Plus WAY more the list goes on for an entire page! Some of the stuff she memorized and liked I've never even heard of. Such as Watchamacallit, apparently it's "peanut flavor crisp".
Reading an interview on Bich's website I realized that my observation was correct. She did think that eating the food everyone else had would make her a middle class Dutch. As an adult Bich acknowledged that, and doesn't find some of the foods as appealing anymore. She has developed a taste for the finer chocolates and handmade sweets.
To read the rest of the interview with Bich visit:
http://www.bichminhnguyen.com/q-a/
Reading an interview on Bich's website I realized that my observation was correct. She did think that eating the food everyone else had would make her a middle class Dutch. As an adult Bich acknowledged that, and doesn't find some of the foods as appealing anymore. She has developed a taste for the finer chocolates and handmade sweets.
To read the rest of the interview with Bich visit:
http://www.bichminhnguyen.com/q-a/
80's Culture
Bich grew up in the 80's. The 80's are described as the "spendthrift" 80's. During this time there were lots of weird fads.
Toys: Smurfs, Nintendo, PAC Man, Gameboy, Atari, Rubik's Cubes, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Barbie, Cabbage Patch Dolls, Hacky-sacks, My Little Pony, Slip-n-Slide, Hungry Hungry Hippos, and many more.
Fashion: Legwarmers over jeans, neon, jelly shoes, Scrunch Socks, Spandex, friendship bracelets, slap bracelets, big hair bows, Nike, jean jackets, parachute pants, and weirder stuff.
Music and Movies: ET, Michael Jackson, Schoolhouse Rock, Raging Bull, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Amadeus, The Empire Strikes Back, Airplane, The Princess Bride, Madonna, Billy Joel, Whitney Houston, Cher, Chicago, Purple Rain, and LOTS more.
TV: Scooby Doo, Yogi Bear, The Flintstones, The A Team, Knight Rider, Care Bears, Mork and Mindy, M*A*S*H, Laverne and Shirley, Family Ties, and others.
It's interesting looking at just some of the things that were popular back then. Some of the fashions seem horrible in my opinion, but then again some are also coming back. Also some of the movies and TV shows that were popular, still are like Scooby Doo and The Princess Bride. Things that were popular and new in the 80's now are categorized as some classics. This is just a look at some of the American culture during Bich's time.
Comparing Grand Rapids
A sea of blond Dutch kids |
Immigrating Into the United States
Camp Chaffee, one of the refugee camps |
Children playing at a refugee camp |
For more info on life in refugee camps or more about the CRC willingness to help those in need visit: http://www.encyclopediaofarkansas.net/encyclopedia/entry-detail.aspx?entryID=5562
http://www.crcna.org/pages/foundation_projects.cfm
Vietnam War
The reason Bich and her family had to leave Saigon was because the Vietnam war was coming to its end and the North Vietnamese were invading South Vietnam. The Vietnam war was North Vietnam with their communists allies and South Vietnam who was supported by the U.S and other anti-communist forces in that region. The reason the United States became involved in this war was because they didn't want South Vietnam to be taken over by communists and it was a part of their wider strategy of containment. Containment was a strategy to stop the spread of communism around the world. We failed in this instance. In the United States the war was very unpopular. People wanted U.S troops out of Vietnam and when they did leave some Vietnamese who were friendly to Americans were allowed to immigrate to the United States. The end result of the war was the North Vietnamese won. That brought with it the unification of North and South Vietnam with North Vietnamese rule. Communist rule also took over Cambodia and Laos. Another result is the huge number of casualties; more than 2,094,200 soldiers from both sides and around 420,000 to 2,500,000 civilians. This war is particularly interesting to me because my Grandpa was in the Navy at this time and was stationed off the coast of Vietnam. We also just learned about the strategy of containment in my American History class.
To find out more information about the Vietnam War visit: http://www.historyplace.com/unitedstates/vietnam/
Many Americans protested the Vietnam War |
U.S. soldiers |
Some of many civilian casualties |
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